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Jeg har vært sammenhengende single i ca 2 måneder, men snart tre år siden forrige samboer. Etter dette har jeg hatt to forhold som har hatt potensialet til å bli mer (og jeg er av typen som ikke gidder å kalle det forhold om det ikke ligger noe mer i det).

Så...om noen jenter vil treffes for en kaffe eller litt knebøy - you know where to find me (riktig - i et av rackene :p )

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Tre måneder singel nå etter et seksårig forhold.

Jeg kan anbefale andre som trenger litt oppmuntring og perspektiv på livet å begynne på BSK. Det hjelper.

Er dette grunnen til den økte logg-/gif-aktiviteten?

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I så fall er denne også det:

http://np.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/2mw4nv/what_is_something_about_the_male_perspective_on/cm867sw?context=3

  • Be attractive/Don't be unattractive isn't all bullshit(it's like 50% BS). We've seen dudes do some creepy/disrespectful ass shit only to end up with the girl at the end of the night. If women really payed attention(not saying y'all don't. Just that it's something to look for), they'd see it's the same for them. They'll see some women do some awkward/crazy ass shit and still have a dude returning their calls just because she's shaped like Chanel Staxxx and sucks dick like Karrine Stephans and/or the grapefruit lady.

  • A man can both see you as a sexual being and as a person. If a guy propositions you for sex, it's not a sign of disrespect. It means he's attracted to you.

  • Keeping the first two points in mind: The reason why guys don't pick up on hints(Even ones as obvious as sitting in his lap and/or asking to watch a movie at his place) is because if we're wrong, we can ruin a friendship. Not only that, but it taints every single nice thing we've done for you. "Did he do that just to get in my pants?"

  • Online dating is throwing your dick AND MAYBE your heart at a wall and hoping something sticks. Repeatedly. The reason those guys aren't forming two well formed sentences referencing your profile is because it's really not worth the effort. If you don't believe me, ask that one male friend of yours that can't get a date if you could create and OKCupid account for him. Bet him about tree fiddy that you can find him a date by the end of the week.

  • If we don't do anything we'll die alone. If we don't take that first step, send that first message, or say that first "Hi, My name is..." we'll end up in a one bedroom apartment choking on a dinner for one in front of a TV reaching for a life alert button.

  • How contradictory the whole "Don't be my friend to get in my pants. Let me know straight up that you want to date me." and "I don't date strangers. I wouldn't date someone just because they found me attractive" is.

  • That stupid irrational ass fear we have that after working for 10-15 year we'll end up with someone who's settling for us because we're "stable".


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ca 3 år kanskje snar 3,5 år? kjedelig å være singel :grumpy:

Du får legge inn alderen din og bli aktiv i flirtetråden, vet du ;)

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3 år! Det har vært tre fiiiiine år med masse selvrealisering, egenutvikling og egotripping.

Jeg tenker å fortsette egotrippen frem til jeg finner en som vil ha meg for den jeg er (og som jeg liker i retur, selvsagt).

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Folk leser denne tråden fra start til slutt tror jeg, jeg høster likes enda... teksten stemmer ikke lengre da, det ble med de tre årene. Fant en som likte meg bedre enn jeg gjør selv - ganske kjekt. Hva jeg gjør fredags kvelder er dog rimelig det samme... maaaaat!

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Jeg har vert singel i 7 eller 8 år, husker ikke helt.

De første 6 årene var bare helt fantastisk. Jubel i taket og skrek freeeeeedom!!

Men nå er jeg singel av valg, dog ikke mitt valg!

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I snart 2 år nå. Leste et sted at single menn har høyere testo-verdier så der stoppa det forholdet! :lol:

Riktige prioriteringer :p

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I nesten 3 mnd, etter at et 5 år langt forhold tok slutt. Liker det ikke veldig godt enda, men lista over ting jeg har lyst til gjøre blir bare lengre og lengre, så det begynner å bli bra. Pluss at det er digg å ha egen (første-kjøpte-og-betalte) leilighet!

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Waaaay too long :cry: tror vi snakker 8 år snart... Første 6 årene var digge! Nice å være singel i 20-årene ;) Definitivt! Men når 30-års dagen nærmet seg, BOOM! *Savn*

Men den som venter på noe godt... ;)

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